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Friday, July 31, 2009
Tasha Grows up:The potty wars won!
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Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
The Sack Lunches

The Sack Lunches
I put my carry-on in the luggage
compartment and sat down in my
assigned seat. It was going to be a
long flight. 'I'm glad I have a
good book to read. Perhaps I will get
a short nap,' I thought.

Just before take off, a line of
soldiers came down the aisle and
filled all the vacant seats, totally
surrounding me. I decided to
start a conversation.
'Where are you headed?'
I asked the soldier seated nearest to me.
'Petawawa. We'll be there for two
weeks for special training, and then
we're being deployed to Afghanistan.

After flying for about an hour, an
announcement was made that sack
lunches were available for five
dollars. It would be several hours
before we reached the east, and I
quickly decided a lunch would help
pass the time...
As I reached for my wallet, I overheard a
soldier ask his buddy if he planned to buy lunch.
No, that seems like a lot of money for
just a sack lunch.
Probably wouldn't be worth five bucks.
I'll wait till we get to base.'
His friend agreed.
I looked around at the other soldiers.
None were buying lunch. I
walked to the back of the plane and
handed the flight attendant a
fifty dollar bill.
'Take a lunch to all those soldiers.'
She grabbed my arms and squeezed
tightly. Her eyes wet with tears, she thanked me.
'My son was a soldier in Iraq ;
it's almost like you are doing it for him.'
Picking up ten sacks, she headed up
the aisle to where the soldiers
were seated. She stopped at my seat
and asked, 'Which do you like
best - beef or chicken?'
'Chicken,' I replied, wondering why
she asked. She turned and went to
the front of plane, returning a
minute later with a dinner plate from
first class. 'This is your thanks..'
After we finished eating, I went
again to the back of the plane,
heading for the rest room.
A man stopped me. 'I saw what you did.
I want to be part of it. Here, take this.'
He handed me twenty-five dollars.
Soon after I returned to my seat, I
saw the Flight Captain coming down
the aisle, looking at the aisle numbers
as he walked, I hoped he was not
looking for me, but noticed he was
looking at the numbers only on
my side of the plane. When he got to
my row he stopped, smiled,
held out his hand, and said,
I want to shake your hand.'
Quickly unfastening my seatbelt I
stood and took the Captain's hand.
With a booming voice he said, 'I was
a soldier and I was a military pilot.
Once, someone bought me a lunch.
It was an act of kindness I never forgot.'
I was embarrassedwhen applause
was heard from all of the passengers.
Later I walked to the front of the
plane so I could stretch my legs.
A man who was seated about six rows
in front of me reached out his
hand, wanting to shake mine. He left
another twenty-five dollars in my palm.
When we landed I gathered my
belongings and started to deplane.
Waiting just inside the airplane door
was a man who stopped me, put
something in my shirt pocket, turned,
and walked away without saying a
word. Another twenty-five dollars!
Upon entering the terminal, I saw the
soldiers gathering for their trip to the base.
I walked over to them and handed them
seventy-five dollars.
'It will take you some time to reach the base.
It will be about time for a sandwich.
God Bless You.'
Ten young men left that flight
feeling the love and respect of their
fellow travelers. As I walked briskly to my car,
I whispered a prayer for their safe return.
These soldiers were giving their all for our country.
I could only give them a couple of meals.
It seemed so little...
A veteran is someone who, at one
point in his life, wrote a blank check
made payable to 'The United States of
America ' for an amount of 'up to and including my life.'
That is Honor, and there are way too many people in this country who no longer understand it.'
May God give you the strength andLove, peace
In Honor of our Military
Monday, July 27, 2009
Life, goes on
This was the first sound I heard this morning, People are surprised that it doesn't bother me. It doesn't. I love to hear the sound of our guys arriving safely back, or just doing what they do. Tasha and I sit outside and watch the planes take off and land. It brings us closer the soldiers, in some ways. I always pray for them | Reactions: |
Friday, July 24, 2009
Six small things saturday....
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Random Friday
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Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Almost Wordless wed, Charleston SC My World
Tasha and the banana
This goes over my head when the planes aren't. The base is 1 mile away..the beach is a block.
Charleston harbor, Sunset
The big bridge, Ravenel or Cooper river bridge depending on how long you hav lived in the city.
Down Town
What Eric served for lunch a few weeks ago.
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Monday, July 20, 2009
Not Me! Monday
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Friday, July 17, 2009
Small Talk Six - I scream you scream....
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Random thoughs on a Friday
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Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Wednesday Interview: Simone from Chocolate covered daydreams.
Please have a seat, can I get you something to drink?
There you go..
Welcome, everyone we are interviewing Simone from Chocolate covered Dreams..you do a wonderful blog on Thursdays called "things that I have learned" Where did you come up with the idea, and why don't your synchronize with other blogs, such as wordless Wednesday, etc? I'd steal it er join you in it?
Tell us your favorite thing about Baby Boo.
She reminds me to put aside stress and have some fun for awhile.
On the flip side, I'm counting down to when she is officially potty trained. I think we'll go out and celebrate!
I have only read your blog for the last 6 months, you have gone through some very heavy (so it dates me) difficult times. You have graciously shared them with your readers. Did it help?
I mean did you get a lot of read support?
Why did you start blogging?
Have you made a lot of blog friends?
How do you like California?
If you could go anywhere and do anything on this earth what and where would you go?
Can tell tell everyone what Oct 25 means to you?
Thank you Simone, for being my guest today today.
Thank you for being here!Now, do I get to be a bridesmaid? Please? Please!!!! I have never been a bridemaids.........please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Oh right, Thank you for visiting....Come on simone, PLEEEEEEEEESSSSSSE?
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Monday, July 13, 2009
Random Monday Night
If you come here more then once in a blue moon, then you are totally confused. But take heart, you are seeing what you think you are. My blog keeps changing formats and colors.
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Friday, July 10, 2009
Small Talk six saturday

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Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Rerunning a interview.....Carey
Questions, for "Interview"
Today we have Carey from "Life in the Carpool lane visiting us, ive her a big hand! Take a bow Carey! Thank you for Visiting, Have a cup of coffee? Oh, no thank you! I’ve never liked the taste of coffee. (My mom, who must drink it daily or she turns into a 3-headed beast from the depths of the blackest swamp, is requesting DNA testing. She’s pretty sure I’m not hers.)
Cream or Sugar?
Cookie? Suger or Chocolate Chip? I’m horrible at making decisions. Maybe just a half of each?
I like the name of your Blog "Life in the Carpool lane" How did you come up with it
Your new badge is great to, !
Thank you. I kind of decided to start the blog on a whim. The boys were down for a nap and I actually had a whole three minutes to myself. I sat with my computer on my lap and was brainstorming titles. At one point I said “life in the fast lane” and then I snorted and thought, “Ha! More like ‘life in the carpool lane’!” And I knew I had it!
You tell wonderful stories about your boys, Logan and Jack, Logan just had a Birthday how does it feel with the two of them growing up?
The parenting saying ‘the days are long but the years are short’ runs through my head at every birthday, milestone, holiday, “first,” etc. I can’t believe that my boys are 3 and 4. How did that happen?!?!?!
What does your husband think of your popularity? Does he read your blog?
He reads it daily and sometimes pipes up in the comments. He’s been ridiculously supportive. He surprised me by buying me my own domain name and he’s helped so much with the technical coding of my site. Last week, because Mr. Linky wasn’t working and I was starting a new carnival, he built me a widget so readers could leave links on my carnival post. Who knew it would pay to be married to a geek?!?!?!
Everyone I am interviewing has taught me something, You taught me about putting my personality into my blog, The first post I read of yours was
" Girls in White Satin" The second one was you Not me Monday for that week.I felt like I ws reading a friend, What would you suggest for new bloggers.?
First off, I can’t believe you remember the first posts you read of mine. I’m touched…and thinking that you might be a bit crazy. Anyway, as for suggestions to new bloggers, I feel like I’m still pretty new at this (my blog is 6 months old) so I’m not sure I’m qualified to be giving out advice. I guess I can offer up two things:
I find it’s easier to “get into” a new blog when their side column(s) have a couple details that make reading their posts easier. For example, if a post mentions that Suzy just graduated and there is a picture of a cute 5 year old girl labeled ‘Suzy’ in the side column then I’m not left wondering if Suzy just graduated from preschool, high school or college. I guess I like it when the details in the side column(s) help put posts in context.
You mentioned that you felt like you were reading a friend when you read some of my posts. Well, I tend to write like I’m talking to a friend. I guess it’s just my style because I used to do it in old journal entries too. I try to be honest and humorous and often use the strikethrough feature and a smaller font, like I’m whispering something to a friend. Hopefully, it makes my readers/blog-friends feel like I’m carrying on a conversation with them.
Have you figured out where are the people who are following you are going?
Nope…still no idea!
What would you like to share with us ?
I make my boys share everything so I guess I should lead by example and share with you. But you can’t have my half cookies. Oh, that’s not what you meant by ‘sharing?’ Ummm, I’m feeling a bit bloated. What? Not that either?
Well, of course, I’d like to shamelessly plug the weekly summer carnival I started to help keep mamas as sane as possible, Tuesday’s Tips for Summer Survival.
What book are you reading Now?
How I wish I could read like I used to…uninterrupted by needy children. It takes me forever to finish a book these days. Anyway, I’m reading Lost on Planet China by J. Maarten Troost. It’s listed as a travel book but it’s not exactly going to help you find the best karaoke bar in Beijing. It’s one man’s very humorous and honest take on all things Chinese. I tend to go back and forth between quick girly reads, the same two parenting books (you’d think I’d give up on them because my boys are still wild but no…I keep hoping the magic solution will fall out of the pages and land in my lap), books that take place in China and books about the way we eat and the effects on our health and the environment (which is also ironic because I could a diet and exercise plan).
When do you type your blog?
Generally at night after the boys have gone to sleep. Sometimes I might start something while they are napping. (Hallelujah for naps!) I have a horrible memory though so I sometimes hand-write stuff down throughout the day.
How do you get your ideas
My boys are great fodder for my blog. It took me awhile before I got the hang of paying close enough attention throughout the day to see that there was great material happening right in front of me. It’s also a great way to get perspective on a situation. When I recently had my terrible Monday and one thing after another went wrong all day long, I was frustrated and overwhelmed but I also realized what a great blog post it would make.
Monday, July 6, 2009
Not me Monday
The winner of my giveaway is Debbie from "On the refridgerator door" Debbie Congratulations and thank you for entering my giveaway. I emailed the information you need for geting your AVOn..
Now to my little Not me stuff...
I did not lock the keys in the truck at FAmily Dollar. I had to pop the rear door, climb over into the back seat, reach over the front seat and pop the locks, because of child proof locks in the back. The people in the white SUV next to me had a blast.
I did not spray over cleaner all over the oven then forget to clean it. I know our old landlord loved that!
I did not spend two hours getting a nice blaze going on a pile of leaves I was buring only to have a Charleston monsoon put it out in 10 seconds.
I did not give Tasha a peanut butter sandwich for dinner, because I had sprayed the oven and couldn't cook.
I did not, even though Denise and I promised ourselves we wouldn't do this, spend the last few hours of our move stuffing last minute items into garbage bags, and small boxes; we now have s significant amout of misc bags and boxes to go through.
I did not dance to Stayin' alive with Tasha, then turn to the toddler music channel and sing silly songs with her. (see a pattern emerging?)
I did not on my first night in the new house do battle with Charleston's famous flying roaches as they dashed out of the chiminey and flew through the living room.
I did not spray oven cleaner on them, and bleach cleaner before smashing them with my shoe.
I did not let Tasha stay up late and watch Noggin as a treat because we have gone three months without television.
I did not rush in here( new houe) and put up the computer first thing so I could go on Facebook..talk about being addicted....
for more Not me Mondays...visit Mcmama......
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Saturday, July 4, 2009
Six Small things saturday...
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Friday, July 3, 2009
Moving day
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